How to cope with your laziness
I thought it would be interesting to look at the root causes of procrastination and see if that can help us get over it. Watch out for these three, they can seriously damage your creativity, your production levels, and your self-esteem:
- Roadblock Number 1: Laziness—It’s just so much easier to surf the Internet, go for a walk or read a book. I’ve dubbed this procrastination and the way out of it for me is to set goals, work out a deadline and stick to it. I make myself understand that if I don’t do it now then I never will. Imagine fast-forwarding your life ten years. Do you want to have achieved your goals or are you ready to admit that you’re just a lazy porker? If you are not coping with deadlines, you just need to find motivation or support. You can get the latter in a live video chat with girls by making new open-minded friends.
- Roadblock Number 2: Fear—There are so many different things to fear from fear of failure to fear of success and everything in between. But don’t let fear control you. Ask yourself what the worst-case scenario is. Since we’re talking about writing here and not scaling Mount Everest, it’s probably not life-threatening. So what have you got to lose? Take charge, give fear “the finger” and do what you need to do now.
- Roadblock Number 3: Perfectionism—Writing’s an art, not a science, so there’s no perfect way to write. At some point, you just have to stop agonizing about every word and every comma and let it go. Herbert Samuel said that “a library is thought in cold storage,” and that’s all your written words are, too. If you think of your writing as thought in “cold storage,” it makes it easier to finish it. After all, you can always come back to it another time. So don’t let your quality control be too stringent. It could be time to hold that thought and get another one down on paper before it gets lost forever.
Watch out for these three roadblocks and don’t let them delay your journey. I consider myself a good driver, but if you even think you’re being threatened by any of these three, then put your foot down on the gas pedal and plow right through them.